To Blog or Not To Blog

How did I get here? How did I get to the point where I am sitting here writing a post to my new blog? Well…I’m not quite sure. Should I be trying this? Am I capable of producing thoughts that are worth sharing? Umm…to be determined.

A couple of days ago while reading the latest blog from writer I had just followed, I got this little inkling of a feeling that I might like to start my own blog. I don’t even know why my mind would insult me with such a daunting idea. I’m thinking to myself “Oh, yeah that would be fun” and “I could totally do that”. But on the inside my mind is screaming “Who are you kidding?” and “You can’t even make eye contact with the cashier and you want to go blabbing all your thoughts out on the internet? Get real”.

But here I am making a go of it. I am truly going to try, if only for myself. I have already had a very serious conversation with myself about trying it for more than a week. I am going to use my blog as a creative outlet. I am going to dedicate the time needed to thoughtfully  communicate well developed posts. I am going to step out of my comfort zone and embrace the written word.

I got this.




April Book Club Review

Still Foolin’ ‘Em: Where I’ve Been, Where I’m Going, and Where the Hell Are My Keys by Billy Crystal.
My Rating: 4 of 5 stars

The book description:

Hilarious and heartfelt observations on aging from one of America’s favorite comedians as he turns 65, and a look back at a remarkable career

Billy Crystal is turning 65, and he’s not happy about it. With his trademark wit and heart, he outlines the absurdities and challenges that come with growing old, from insomnia to memory loss to leaving dinners with half your meal on your shirt. In humorous chapters like “Buying the Plot” and “Nodding Off,” Crystal not only catalogues his physical gripes, but offers a road map to his 77 million fellow baby boomers who are arriving at this milestone age with him. He also looks back at the most powerful and memorable moments of his long and storied life, from entertaining his relatives as a kid in Long Beach, Long Island, his years doing stand-up in the Village, up through his legendary stint at Saturday Night Live, When Harry Met Sally, and his long run as host of the Academy Awards. Readers get a front-row seat to his one-day career with the New York Yankees (he was the first player to ever “test positive for Maalox”), his love affair with Sophia Loren, and his enduring friendships with several of his idols, including Mickey Mantle and Muhammad Ali. He lends a light touch to more serious topics like religion (“the aging friends I know have turned to the Holy Trinity: Advil, bourbon, and Prozac”), grandparenting, and, of course, dentistry. As wise and poignant as they are funny, Crystal’s reflections are an unforgettable look at an extraordinary life well lived.


My book club and I read this book as part of our 2016 challenge to read an autobiography.  At first glance I was not sure what I would think about it. I have never been a huge fan of Billy Crystal, but there are a few films he is in that I have enjoyed over the years. His comedy style has always been a little off for my taste. I have always been more of a Jerry Seinfeld or Steve Martin fan (sorry Billy!)

The novel itself is wonderfully executed. The story alternates between his thoughts on aging as he is now 65 and his life story. I found it interesting to learn so many facts about his role film industry. On the other hand his life experiences involving baseball and his many friendships with baseball legends was less interesting but not at all less of an experience as a reader. I am not a sports fan so it was hard for me to identify with his passion for it.

The voice of the novel was amazing. Billy’s true voice spoke off the pages to me the entire time. Rarely have I read an autobiography where I felt so convinced that I was having an intimate conversation with the writer. That is great writing and execution. For interest and likability I would rate it a solid 3 stars. For execution and voice I am adding a star for a rating of 4 stars.

On a side note, I am disappointed I didn’t order this on Audio CD as I just saw that it won 2 awards for best audiobook. I listen to audiobooks all the time and found it somewhat ironic that I didn’t think to get it on audio. The additional plus would have been the performance of Billy reading the book. Live and learn.